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The Power of Positive Thinking and Visualization: A Guide to Achieving Your Dreams

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Introduction  Positive thinking and visualization are powerful tools for personal growth and success. They help us create a mental image of the life we want to live, which in turn motivates us to take the necessary steps to make it a reality. When combined with action, positive thinking and visualization can bring us closer to our goals and help us lead a more fulfilling life. Benefits of Positive Thinking   Positive thinking has been shown to have numerous benefits, both mental and physical. It can help reduce stress, increase happiness, and boost self-confidence. Positive thinking also leads to better decision-making, improves relationships, and enhances overall well-being. Visualization: A Technique for Positive Thinking Visualization is the process of creating a mental image of a desired outcome. It is an effective way to harness the power of your mind to achieve your goals. When you visualize, you are programming your subconscious mind ...

Safed sari ... हिंदी प्रेम कविता hindi love poetry by Sonal Singh

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Poetry:- Safed saaree ka uske fir se rangeen hona tay tha, Khaali dil ko uske fir se shaukeen hona tay tha, Ki mil gaya tha usey fir se koi saathi apna, Apni kismat pe usey fir se yakeen hona tay tha. Vo ek bebaak parinda tha, Nikla tha udaan pe, Kisi tarah se nazar padi uski iss saadgi ki pehchaan pe, Dil vahi, vo haar gaya ispe, Jaan ko apni vaar gaya ispe. Ishq pe jisey fir se yakeen hona tay tha, Safed saree ka uske fir se rangeen hona tay tha, Asaan si nahi hai ye kahani itni, Waqt ne fir ki beimaani itni. Koi ek nahi tha jisne inke raaste ko roka tha, Riwaazon ke naam aise hi kitno ko jhoka tha, Kuchh aankhon ko ye ab chubhne lage the, Guroor ke mehel jo ab doobne lage the, Gunaahon ki unke fir sangeen hona tay tha, Safed saree ka uske fir se rangeen hona tay tha. Awaazein goonjne lagi fir goliyon ki, Sehem si gayi awaazein thitholiyon ki, Shikaar karne nikle the sab mohabbat ka, Khoon se bhar dene ko yaadein aisi holiyon ki. Na insaafi ka lekin pairon taley zameen kh...

A simple key to get over stress related to frustration and ensure success in your chosen path.

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      Do you often feel frustrated? Where does this frustration develops from? A very simple answer is not getting what you had expected. Frustration signals directly to the feeling which comes after consequent failures even after numerous trials. You feel frustrated when your efforts were honest and you did the best you could have done, but the results did not meet your expectations.       Let me tell you this feeling may not help you to gain success later but it is surely gonna let you have some losses for sure. Your body and mind would get a negative signal and would act accordingly after that. They might gradually begin to remain in the stressful situations even after such situations have passed already. It would subconsciously feed in your mind that you are in a situation that is terrible for you. And thus, the results would hamper the biological processes in your body. Persistent stress and frustration might lead to p...

Main ek LADKA hun ... Hindi poetry on gender stereotyping by Sonal Singh

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      'Main ek LADKA hun' is one of our best creations till date which expresses out a topic that is not much thought about. It focuses basically upon gender stereotyping and how we have categorised works, choices, colours, jobs and responsibilities on the basis of gender. And much more than that, it focuses on the struggles that a male has to face in the society for having a broad mindset and his decision to gender equality.      A male, he might be a husband, a brother, or a father, has often faced humiliation and us ridiculed if he goes against this stereotyping, and chooses to work differently. We all are no strangers to the capabilities of both the genders and have seen people raising their voices for women empowerment. But, it's still a tragedy that people hardly think that the males in the society would be having any troubles in thinking out of the box. We hardly have any idea about the problems, the men in our surroundings face. Males do...

The social stigma against COMPLAINS..

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     The human race is evolved with an ability to perceive what's going on around in the environment. We have a cognitive ability and that is what makes us realise if there is something wrong going on around us. It helps us to raise our voice and ask for help or even complain to save ourselves from that wrong thing. But when the matter comes to a problem within us or with the people around us, and if this cognitive ability comes into action we are somewhat under an external pressure and resistance to not bring it out in public.      These are a wide range of topics such as, a mental health issue, an issue with the behaviour of a family friend or a relative, an issue with your own family or parents, an issue with someone socially powerful and sometimes even those who are a part of some authorities, etc. There might be more in this list or maybe some different versions of the same story. But there is one thing that is common, and that is the resis...

Hai Junoon .. Hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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     "Hai junoon" is basically a motivational and inspirational poetry for those who are facing hard times and have a strong desire to come out of them. This poem would help create a spark in those people who have big dreams but lack in the spark required, those, who find it difficult to stand up again if they fall once in the way to their destiny.       This poem explains the fact as to how can we prevent ourselves from giving up. It explains, that a person if had any intentions to give up, or had a fear to lose, would have never started to fight for his/her dreams. It lets us know that whenever we feel like we are loosing it, remembering why we started, helps.      A person's biggest competitor in the world is no one else but himself. If you can't change your situations, no one else can do it for you. Giving up is as easy as simply sitting down feeling tired, but that is an option that should not be given to you...

Jealousy ruins happiness.. Feelings, causes and how to deal with it.

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     There are times when your jealousy creeps into your mind in such a way that it seems impossible to get over it or even ignore it and divert our attention into some other direction. Internet is full of articles which advise us to do the same, to divert our attention as an immediate response to suppress this feeling. We're asked to find out the root cause and sometimes even discuss it with the significant other.      Trust me I tried my best to do so. I tried to figure out what the root cause might be. And there were multiple things that added up to be a reason for the same.       Before I let you know anything about the causes I felt were responsible, let me share the situation which caused me to feel jealous.       My significant other has been my support system all this time. He is a person with an open mind and believes in a lifestyle that doesn't have any unnecessary boundaries. But this too much f...

Ye waada raha .. Hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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           'Ye waada raha' is one of those poetries that would not just fill you with inspiration but would also let you know the value of empowering yourself. It's not always that the situation is in our favour, and not always that we have someone or the other to help us or take our responsibility. We may not always be from an influential background and doesn't matter at all. It's not our fault if we are born poor, but it is surely our fault if we die the same way. We don't even realise how much power we have inside ourselves until there is a time we start using it. And if we don't, this power would ofcourse be lost somewhere inside.       It's important and is high time that we start taking steps to be the best in our fields and be consistent on our path to success. And for this purpose, we need strong motivation and also a sense of responsibility within ourselves. We all know that the number of accidents of bli...

Waqt ka pata nahi chalta.. Hindi poetry bye Sonal Singh

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Every day, every minute, every second passes without bothering if you have lived it to the fullest or not. We keep preparing for that one time when we would live but no one ever knows if they would be alive till then or not. This hindi poetry over here tries to bring out this same message and makes the readers reflect whether this way of life is good or not? It encourages them to wait for a moment and observe the nature and it's beauty. The poet over here asks to wait and watch how everyone looks like when they move in a crowd like a herd of sheeps. So do enjoy this lovely peace:- You can also watch this poem in the form of a video for an even better experience from the link below:- Click here to watch the poem video Roz dhalta ja raha hai din, Waqt ka pata hi nahi chalta.. Kis waqt ke aane k pal rahe ho gin Ki jeene ka pata hi nahi chalta.. Usi bhaag daud mein hote hain savere. Thakaan mein vhi shaamein hoti hain.. Arso se thahaake lagaaye nahi... Neendein nahi ab bas ...

Mann ki baatein.. Hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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     When we deal with loneliness, we find it really hard to share all that is inside our heart. It becomes difficult to keep everything to ourselves all the time but the truth is that everyone isn't trustworthy in this world. We can be in a house full of people, we can have a whole lot of friends on social media, a big friends circle at school or college, but deep within we know that we are lonely, and this feeling is something that many of us have experienced. In such a situation, we wonder how different would our lives have been if we had a friend with whom we could have shared all our happiness and sorrows, all our feelings and even been vulnerable at times without being judged.      Don't you think there should be solution for this? A substitute for such a friend is the night sky, the moon and the stars. Once you look up and gaze towards them, you start feeling better. This poem below would give you an explanation as to how you ...

Tere jaane ke baad.. Hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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        Why has suicide become a common term these days? Why has the youth found it to be the most appropriate thing to do when situations aren't going the way they expected? Why can't we keep fighting? What is it that we think death would give us that life cannot? And who has given us the right to take away with us the happiness and smile of all those whom we call our loved ones? Don't you think there can always be another option if one door is closed? Yes there is always another way to choose, and if not, why not choose to switch your destination. One never knows where can his happiness he found.      This poem brings out that feeling, that emotion that stays with those who have lost their dear ones through this act of killing themselves. We can't talk to ones whom we have lost but we can at least try to save those who want to choose the same fate. You can also watch this poem in the form of a video for a better experience. Watch thi...

Vo Lakshmi jo puji nahi jaati... Hindi kavita

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  This is a hindi poetry which brings out the feelings of being a part of such a society where females are often treated as people who do not have any authoritative role in a family. Be it their parents house or their in-laws' , a woman has to struggle hard to find a place that she can call her own. A lot of reforms and newly made laws have however made it clear that a female is as equally a rightful owner to her parents'property as the male child but this is just a law that hardly people think they should even bother about.      Even in the at her husband's house where a woman should be considered as a family member, years pass when she is taunted for her upbringing, and reminded that she is from some other family.      Honestly, there are a big number of families even today, who believe that a woman's universe lies around the happiness and we'll being of the male members of her family. Here's the poem that brings out this message and tell...

Let's talk about anger issues...

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           Is there anything as such as not being furious? Or probably you dream to be someone of that sort. You say you get angry, but it's not your fault. But then it is also you who says you would control it.  An interesting fact that I came to notive about anger is, that it isn't something that you think you can suppress. You would fine millions of people telling you about controlling it, ignoring it or simply not feeling it. Just try to imagine a different situation. Suppose you get hurt while playing, cooking, or while doing anything (activity isn't important). A sure shot outcome would be pain from that hurt. Now imagine someone telling you, ignore it, ignore your wound, ignore your pain, or simply don't feel the pain. How would that sound like?  Craziness? Or something you would call nonsense? Isn't it?       Now try to relate this with your situations, don't you feel the same when you are angry and some one advises you...

Am I the one to be questioned all the time? A whole bunch of questions that arise when we are depressed..

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           Everything you did in the past simply feels worthless just because of one unexpected outcome which you may or may not be the cause of. Have to be taken for granted and left unattended just for that single unattempted mistake of yours. Regret? But for what? For not being able to do something you couldn't do? You have people with their own list of expectations, simple or complicated, they would want things to happen the way they like.       Behave according to the needs and beliefs of the society. Dress the way they like, work the way they tell you to, like whatever they stereotype you to, and above all, well nothing comes above their wishes. You believe you can change the world? You feel you are better in something you like but they don't? You are simply supposed to act, act the way they tell you, not an inch of inacuuracy is acceptable.       You think you are strong enough? There are examples o...

Empathy in a relationship and it's importance. How would they be able to enculcate this lovely attribute...?

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           Is it so very necessary for both the individuals in a couple to be perfect? Or is it simply togetherness and the will to accept each other the way they are that is important? Why is it so common these days to see people still unknown to the attribute of empathy? They are often confused between what they call empathy and what its actual meaning is. What they call as empathy is actually what we know as sympathy. Being sympathetic in a relationship turns things into a master and slave situation. You feel pity over your partner, maybe that's why you would not choose to hurt them, but that doesn't mean you would feel that same way they are feeling.       Men and even women too have been seen to have a lack of empathy but they don't even realize this. Your partner tells you about some problem they are facing, all you start doing is either console them, tell them you feel sorry for them, but wait, you felt the same when y...