My Dearest Chronicles

Poem :- Bas pyar ki hi lakeer hai, Koi kayde ka ghera nahi hai, Vo mera ho ke bhi ab tak mera nahi hai. Waqt bitana sang uske, Lagbhag se aasaan ho gaya. Tasveer ko gale lagaana usey, Milne ke samaan ho gaya. Majboor hai vo zara sa, Koi dhokebaaz nahi, Hota hai jo mehsus mujhe, Uspe usey bhi naaz nahi, Chubhti hai meri baatein jab, Samjhta hai mujhe, Jaanta hai kismat se dukhi hu,par usse naraz nahi. Kehta hai "Bas kohra sa chhaya hai raaste par, koi andhera nahi hai". Bas pyar ki hi lakeer hai, Koi kayde ka ghera nahi hai. Vo mera ho ke bhi ab tak mera nahi hai. Zimmedariyaan jo hain so nibhaani toh padengi, Ye chhoti chhoti takleefein bhulaani toh padengi. Zindagi pe uske bas mera haq toh nahi, Jo chehre hain duniya uski, unpe muskuraahat laani toh padengi. Chand ki chamak hai bas, abhi savera nahi hai, Bas pyar ki hi lakeer hai, Koi kayde ka ghera nahi hai. Vo mera ho ke bhi ab tak mera nahi hai. Thoda thak sa gaya hai abhi ruka nahi hai, Usoolon se apne vo jhu...

Let's go through the poetry first:- Jab aas paas na rahun tumhare, Jab nuks koi na nikaalun tumhare, Zara puchhna khud se mere baare mein. Jab akele na bhi ho bina mere, Jab yaad bhi na ho aankho mein tere, Zara puchhna khud se mere baare mein. Jab lage ki khush ho aise bhi, Jab lage mujhse chidhte ho vaise bhi, Zara puchhna khud se mere baare mein. Jab lage ki ab jaa kar sukun mila, Jab lage mere saath bas khoon jala, Zara puchhna, khudse mere baare mein. Puchhna ki mera kasoor kya hai, Puchhna ki ye jo fitoor sa hai, Ye kya hai?  Meri galti hai koi ya ab main hi galat lagti hun?  Tumhe pareshani hai koi, ya tumhari pareshani hi main lagti hun? Kyu aisa rishta hamaara badalne laga hai? Kyu jo hasta tha mann ab machalne laga hai? Kya wajah hai ki roz taraazu alag hota hai? Kyu ye roz inaam mera alag hota hai? Kuchh toh sochte hoge mere mann ko tatolte waqt?  Kuchh toh dekhte hoge mere jazbaat se khelte waqt? Mujhe acha lagega ya bura kya tumhe pata nahi chalta...

      Do you often feel frustrated? Where does this frustration develops from? A very simple answer is not getting what you had expected. Frustration signals directly to the feeling which comes after consequent failures even after numerous trials. You feel frustrated when your efforts were honest and you did the best you could have done, but the results did not meet your expectations.       Let me tell you this feeling may not help you to gain success later but it is surely gonna let you have some losses for sure. Your body and mind would get a negative signal and would act accordingly after that. They might gradually begin to remain in the stressful situations even after such situations have passed already. It would subconsciously feed in your mind that you are in a situation that is terrible for you. And thus, the results would hamper the biological processes in your body. Persistent stress and frustration might lead to p...

     "Hai junoon" is basically a motivational and inspirational poetry for those who are facing hard times and have a strong desire to come out of them. This poem would help create a spark in those people who have big dreams but lack in the spark required, those, who find it difficult to stand up again if they fall once in the way to their destiny.       This poem explains the fact as to how can we prevent ourselves from giving up. It explains, that a person if had any intentions to give up, or had a fear to lose, would have never started to fight for his/her dreams. It lets us know that whenever we feel like we are loosing it, remembering why we started, helps.      A person's biggest competitor in the world is no one else but himself. If you can't change your situations, no one else can do it for you. Giving up is as easy as simply sitting down feeling tired, but that is an option that should not be given to you...

     There are times when your jealousy creeps into your mind in such a way that it seems impossible to get over it or even ignore it and divert our attention into some other direction. Internet is full of articles which advise us to do the same, to divert our attention as an immediate response to suppress this feeling. We're asked to find out the root cause and sometimes even discuss it with the significant other.      Trust me I tried my best to do so. I tried to figure out what the root cause might be. And there were multiple things that added up to be a reason for the same.       Before I let you know anything about the causes I felt were responsible, let me share the situation which caused me to feel jealous.       My significant other has been my support system all this time. He is a person with an open mind and believes in a lifestyle that doesn't have any unnecessary boundaries. But this too much f...

           'Ye waada raha' is one of those poetries that would not just fill you with inspiration but would also let you know the value of empowering yourself. It's not always that the situation is in our favour, and not always that we have someone or the other to help us or take our responsibility. We may not always be from an influential background and doesn't matter at all. It's not our fault if we are born poor, but it is surely our fault if we die the same way. We don't even realise how much power we have inside ourselves until there is a time we start using it. And if we don't, this power would ofcourse be lost somewhere inside.       It's important and is high time that we start taking steps to be the best in our fields and be consistent on our path to success. And for this purpose, we need strong motivation and also a sense of responsibility within ourselves. We all know that the number of accidents of bli...

           Is there anything as such as not being furious? Or probably you dream to be someone of that sort. You say you get angry, but it's not your fault. But then it is also you who says you would control it.  An interesting fact that I came to notive about anger is, that it isn't something that you think you can suppress. You would fine millions of people telling you about controlling it, ignoring it or simply not feeling it. Just try to imagine a different situation. Suppose you get hurt while playing, cooking, or while doing anything (activity isn't important). A sure shot outcome would be pain from that hurt. Now imagine someone telling you, ignore it, ignore your wound, ignore your pain, or simply don't feel the pain. How would that sound like?  Craziness? Or something you would call nonsense? Isn't it?       Now try to relate this with your situations, don't you feel the same when you are angry and some one advises you...

           Everything you did in the past simply feels worthless just because of one unexpected outcome which you may or may not be the cause of. Have to be taken for granted and left unattended just for that single unattempted mistake of yours. Regret? But for what? For not being able to do something you couldn't do? You have people with their own list of expectations, simple or complicated, they would want things to happen the way they like.       Behave according to the needs and beliefs of the society. Dress the way they like, work the way they tell you to, like whatever they stereotype you to, and above all, well nothing comes above their wishes. You believe you can change the world? You feel you are better in something you like but they don't? You are simply supposed to act, act the way they tell you, not an inch of inacuuracy is acceptable.       You think you are strong enough? There are examples o...

           Is it so very necessary for both the individuals in a couple to be perfect? Or is it simply togetherness and the will to accept each other the way they are that is important? Why is it so common these days to see people still unknown to the attribute of empathy? They are often confused between what they call empathy and what its actual meaning is. What they call as empathy is actually what we know as sympathy. Being sympathetic in a relationship turns things into a master and slave situation. You feel pity over your partner, maybe that's why you would not choose to hurt them, but that doesn't mean you would feel that same way they are feeling.       Men and even women too have been seen to have a lack of empathy but they don't even realize this. Your partner tells you about some problem they are facing, all you start doing is either console them, tell them you feel sorry for them, but wait, you felt the same when y...

           Now, when I see my friends, another creepy thought comes into my mind that shakes me down to my spine. I know the virtues of not being jealous. I know it's our insecurities that make us unhappy. But when we come to a practical aspect of life, we come across hurdles created by our own mind. And the same happens with me. I feel like lagging behind. What good things I did in the past doesn't amaze me at all since I'm not able to replicate it in my present.       It feels frustrating and disheartening. I feel like I am a worthless creature. Not because I don't know what my abilities are, but only because I can't conquer them. Every step brings with it a hurdle which is twice it's worth. It doesn't mean that my goals aren't my priority, it does not even imply I am scared of these obstacles. It simply means each every step requires me to invest double or treble the energy and time that I actually need to have invested in...

      Don't you feel sometimes people around you seem too annoying but those reasons did not bother you so much in some other point of time with the same people causing them? Do you really think every issue that comes up needs a big fight or argument to be resolved? Or probably you are the one who sometimes feel like surrounded by a bunch of idiots having no common sense at all. You see you have been under a very common situation and that doesn't even seem like a problem. Neither did any of you guys ever realised nor did I. I admit, I had been in to same situation when I felt and reacted in an overwhelming way. My views suddenly changed when a certain activity came in between as an interval. Slowly and gradually I felt like agreeing to something that my own subconscious mind popped inside my head. I agreed to the fact that I overreacted previously over the situation which was possibly a mistake but did not deserve a big punishment rather could be handled patiently or simp...