My Dearest Chronicles

      Do you often feel frustrated? Where does this frustration develops from? A very simple answer is not getting what you had expected. Frustration signals directly to the feeling which comes after consequent failures even after numerous trials. You feel frustrated when your efforts were honest and you did the best you could have done, but the results did not meet your expectations.       Let me tell you this feeling may not help you to gain success later but it is surely gonna let you have some losses for sure. Your body and mind would get a negative signal and would act accordingly after that. They might gradually begin to remain in the stressful situations even after such situations have passed already. It would subconsciously feed in your mind that you are in a situation that is terrible for you. And thus, the results would hamper the biological processes in your body. Persistent stress and frustration might lead to p...

      If you think you are in a relationship that is just near to death. If you have started to feel the problem is not cheating but the two of you not loving each other anymore or feeling happy in each other's company. You really want things to have some sort of positive outcome. Conversations you both are having are not fine at all and most of the time end on some kind of an argument. Your emotions are somewhat bottled up if you keep quite and things backfire if you try to express yourself.        You really want things to improve right? This is why you are here. And this shows that things have still not gone out of hand completely and you are still hoping that one day things would come to a happy phase. So here are a few bits of things you can do which may bring a good result for your relationship. If you really think it's not a case of cheating and disloyalty in your relationship then you have a good chance that you can rejuvenate the o...

      'Main ek LADKA hun' is one of our best creations till date which expresses out a topic that is not much thought about. It focuses basically upon gender stereotyping and how we have categorised works, choices, colours, jobs and responsibilities on the basis of gender. And much more than that, it focuses on the struggles that a male has to face in the society for having a broad mindset and his decision to gender equality.      A male, he might be a husband, a brother, or a father, has often faced humiliation and us ridiculed if he goes against this stereotyping, and chooses to work differently. We all are no strangers to the capabilities of both the genders and have seen people raising their voices for women empowerment. But, it's still a tragedy that people hardly think that the males in the society would be having any troubles in thinking out of the box. We hardly have any idea about the problems, the men in our surroundings face. Males do...

     The human race is evolved with an ability to perceive what's going on around in the environment. We have a cognitive ability and that is what makes us realise if there is something wrong going on around us. It helps us to raise our voice and ask for help or even complain to save ourselves from that wrong thing. But when the matter comes to a problem within us or with the people around us, and if this cognitive ability comes into action we are somewhat under an external pressure and resistance to not bring it out in public.      These are a wide range of topics such as, a mental health issue, an issue with the behaviour of a family friend or a relative, an issue with your own family or parents, an issue with someone socially powerful and sometimes even those who are a part of some authorities, etc. There might be more in this list or maybe some different versions of the same story. But there is one thing that is common, and that is the resis...

     "Miss you Maa", the phrase itself says it's whole story. This poetry brings out the pain that most of us face or are destined to face in this world and is something that we can't just run away from or can skip this feeling if he are lucky enough to have felt a mother's love and care in our lives ever.      The pain is equally invincible and has no substitute. But what is that which makes this poem so much different? It's the regret, the feeling of guilt that a child feels once he or she has lost the most loving and caring person in his or her life. The regret of not being with her, your mother, when you could have been. The regret of not having the time to live some happy moments in her presence. The regret of not ever keeping her as your priority despite being her priority ever since you have been born.       It's obvious that bringing someone back is not possible, nor can we stop anybody forever. Sooner or later, every...

     "Hai junoon" is basically a motivational and inspirational poetry for those who are facing hard times and have a strong desire to come out of them. This poem would help create a spark in those people who have big dreams but lack in the spark required, those, who find it difficult to stand up again if they fall once in the way to their destiny.       This poem explains the fact as to how can we prevent ourselves from giving up. It explains, that a person if had any intentions to give up, or had a fear to lose, would have never started to fight for his/her dreams. It lets us know that whenever we feel like we are loosing it, remembering why we started, helps.      A person's biggest competitor in the world is no one else but himself. If you can't change your situations, no one else can do it for you. Giving up is as easy as simply sitting down feeling tired, but that is an option that should not be given to you...

     "I Miss You Papa", is an emotional masterpiece poetry that can lead one to tears. The feeling of losing a parent, a father, is one such irreparable loss, that most of us in this world are destined to face, sooner or later. There is an outburst of memories that one has with their father, is what is seen in such a situation. And the pain is just unimaginable.       We generally are under a notion that everything will remain as it is forever, our life, our family, our loved ones, and this notion makes us take our important support system, our parents, for granted. This is sad, as no one is able to change anything they did in the past, and there is no possibility to correct our mistakes even after we realise it, as there is no way to bring back the ones who have left this world. All we have with us is guilt and sadness.       The poem here, brings out minute details of every moment one experiences with a fat...

       "Badle badle lagte ho" , a hindi poetry that expresses out the feelings of a lover who has started to face a situation where the love in the romantic relationship has started to fade away or seems like one.      The person is confused if this is only because of the situations, or is it that the feelings of the partner has began to change. In such a situation there are many random thoughts that a person thinks about as a possible reason for a cold behaviour. They think, their partner might be angry for something, or probably it's the partner trying to distant himself just to avoid the person.       In such cases, it becomes highly needful for the two, to bring up the concerns and discuss it which each other.  One never knows what other reasons might there be, if such an avoidance is not intentional.   This is what the poem tries to show to its readers in a beautiful way. So let's start reading it:- Y...

     A situation comes in our romantic relationships where we think that our significant other is not present with us even if they do physically. We feel hurt, and unheard. Such a feeling is not just frustrating but also is something that makes us very sad. It looks like we are often going through an existential crisis, and our partner seems to not even bother about it. Life doesn't seems like going to any direction and everything around looks colourless. The problem comes up when we don't even know what is that something that we should do, or should have done so that we may get the same love and affection from our partner as much as we give to them. Everything can't work out from one side if the latter isn't equally treating us. This poem over here, tries to share our some of such feelings in the form of words. It might help you clearly understand what situations you are in, if in case you are. A poem is one of the best and the most beautiful way of express...

     There are times when your jealousy creeps into your mind in such a way that it seems impossible to get over it or even ignore it and divert our attention into some other direction. Internet is full of articles which advise us to do the same, to divert our attention as an immediate response to suppress this feeling. We're asked to find out the root cause and sometimes even discuss it with the significant other.      Trust me I tried my best to do so. I tried to figure out what the root cause might be. And there were multiple things that added up to be a reason for the same.       Before I let you know anything about the causes I felt were responsible, let me share the situation which caused me to feel jealous.       My significant other has been my support system all this time. He is a person with an open mind and believes in a lifestyle that doesn't have any unnecessary boundaries. But this too much f...

           'Ye waada raha' is one of those poetries that would not just fill you with inspiration but would also let you know the value of empowering yourself. It's not always that the situation is in our favour, and not always that we have someone or the other to help us or take our responsibility. We may not always be from an influential background and doesn't matter at all. It's not our fault if we are born poor, but it is surely our fault if we die the same way. We don't even realise how much power we have inside ourselves until there is a time we start using it. And if we don't, this power would ofcourse be lost somewhere inside.       It's important and is high time that we start taking steps to be the best in our fields and be consistent on our path to success. And for this purpose, we need strong motivation and also a sense of responsibility within ourselves. We all know that the number of accidents of bli...