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A simple key to get over stress related to frustration and ensure success in your chosen path.

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      Do you often feel frustrated? Where does this frustration develops from? A very simple answer is not getting what you had expected. Frustration signals directly to the feeling which comes after consequent failures even after numerous trials. You feel frustrated when your efforts were honest and you did the best you could have done, but the results did not meet your expectations.       Let me tell you this feeling may not help you to gain success later but it is surely gonna let you have some losses for sure. Your body and mind would get a negative signal and would act accordingly after that. They might gradually begin to remain in the stressful situations even after such situations have passed already. It would subconsciously feed in your mind that you are in a situation that is terrible for you. And thus, the results would hamper the biological processes in your body. Persistent stress and frustration might lead to p...

5 golden steps you can take to rekindle a dying relationship

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      If you think you are in a relationship that is just near to death. If you have started to feel the problem is not cheating but the two of you not loving each other anymore or feeling happy in each other's company. You really want things to have some sort of positive outcome. Conversations you both are having are not fine at all and most of the time end on some kind of an argument. Your emotions are somewhat bottled up if you keep quite and things backfire if you try to express yourself.        You really want things to improve right? This is why you are here. And this shows that things have still not gone out of hand completely and you are still hoping that one day things would come to a happy phase. So here are a few bits of things you can do which may bring a good result for your relationship. If you really think it's not a case of cheating and disloyalty in your relationship then you have a good chance that you can rejuvenate the o...

Main ek LADKA hun ... Hindi poetry on gender stereotyping by Sonal Singh

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      'Main ek LADKA hun' is one of our best creations till date which expresses out a topic that is not much thought about. It focuses basically upon gender stereotyping and how we have categorised works, choices, colours, jobs and responsibilities on the basis of gender. And much more than that, it focuses on the struggles that a male has to face in the society for having a broad mindset and his decision to gender equality.      A male, he might be a husband, a brother, or a father, has often faced humiliation and us ridiculed if he goes against this stereotyping, and chooses to work differently. We all are no strangers to the capabilities of both the genders and have seen people raising their voices for women empowerment. But, it's still a tragedy that people hardly think that the males in the society would be having any troubles in thinking out of the box. We hardly have any idea about the problems, the men in our surroundings face. Males do...

The social stigma against COMPLAINS..

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     The human race is evolved with an ability to perceive what's going on around in the environment. We have a cognitive ability and that is what makes us realise if there is something wrong going on around us. It helps us to raise our voice and ask for help or even complain to save ourselves from that wrong thing. But when the matter comes to a problem within us or with the people around us, and if this cognitive ability comes into action we are somewhat under an external pressure and resistance to not bring it out in public.      These are a wide range of topics such as, a mental health issue, an issue with the behaviour of a family friend or a relative, an issue with your own family or parents, an issue with someone socially powerful and sometimes even those who are a part of some authorities, etc. There might be more in this list or maybe some different versions of the same story. But there is one thing that is common, and that is the resis...

Miss you Maa .. A sad hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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     "Miss you Maa", the phrase itself says it's whole story. This poetry brings out the pain that most of us face or are destined to face in this world and is something that we can't just run away from or can skip this feeling if he are lucky enough to have felt a mother's love and care in our lives ever.      The pain is equally invincible and has no substitute. But what is that which makes this poem so much different? It's the regret, the feeling of guilt that a child feels once he or she has lost the most loving and caring person in his or her life. The regret of not being with her, your mother, when you could have been. The regret of not having the time to live some happy moments in her presence. The regret of not ever keeping her as your priority despite being her priority ever since you have been born.       It's obvious that bringing someone back is not possible, nor can we stop anybody forever. Sooner or later, every...

Hai Junoon .. Hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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     "Hai junoon" is basically a motivational and inspirational poetry for those who are facing hard times and have a strong desire to come out of them. This poem would help create a spark in those people who have big dreams but lack in the spark required, those, who find it difficult to stand up again if they fall once in the way to their destiny.       This poem explains the fact as to how can we prevent ourselves from giving up. It explains, that a person if had any intentions to give up, or had a fear to lose, would have never started to fight for his/her dreams. It lets us know that whenever we feel like we are loosing it, remembering why we started, helps.      A person's biggest competitor in the world is no one else but himself. If you can't change your situations, no one else can do it for you. Giving up is as easy as simply sitting down feeling tired, but that is an option that should not be given to you...

I Miss You Papa .. An emotional hindi poetry by Sonal Singh

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     "I Miss You Papa", is an emotional masterpiece poetry that can lead one to tears. The feeling of losing a parent, a father, is one such irreparable loss, that most of us in this world are destined to face, sooner or later. There is an outburst of memories that one has with their father, is what is seen in such a situation. And the pain is just unimaginable.       We generally are under a notion that everything will remain as it is forever, our life, our family, our loved ones, and this notion makes us take our important support system, our parents, for granted. This is sad, as no one is able to change anything they did in the past, and there is no possibility to correct our mistakes even after we realise it, as there is no way to bring back the ones who have left this world. All we have with us is guilt and sadness.       The poem here, brings out minute details of every moment one experiences with a fat...