My Dearest Chronicles

           You see a lot of people theses days advising you on how to control your lust. How to gain control over your senses is what their prime implication is upon. Just because there are people who have been known to overcome their lust and become great spiritual leaders are mostly males, doesn't mean that the opposite gender might be the most probable cause.       I don't say there aren't females who are lusty, but I do say it is not always a female who is the only cause of a male leading to his doom. The more you see videos, articles or even read books, most of them influencing on man being the only being the only constant and the main desciple of the universe and all other factors around him including women(yes women too have been projected as a factor in most cases) being a cause of his strength, distraction, success and failure.      I have come across a number of such people who influence others on the...

           Is there anything as such as not being furious? Or probably you dream to be someone of that sort. You say you get angry, but it's not your fault. But then it is also you who says you would control it.  An interesting fact that I came to notive about anger is, that it isn't something that you think you can suppress. You would fine millions of people telling you about controlling it, ignoring it or simply not feeling it. Just try to imagine a different situation. Suppose you get hurt while playing, cooking, or while doing anything (activity isn't important). A sure shot outcome would be pain from that hurt. Now imagine someone telling you, ignore it, ignore your wound, ignore your pain, or simply don't feel the pain. How would that sound like?  Craziness? Or something you would call nonsense? Isn't it?       Now try to relate this with your situations, don't you feel the same when you are angry and some one advises you...

           Everything you did in the past simply feels worthless just because of one unexpected outcome which you may or may not be the cause of. Have to be taken for granted and left unattended just for that single unattempted mistake of yours. Regret? But for what? For not being able to do something you couldn't do? You have people with their own list of expectations, simple or complicated, they would want things to happen the way they like.       Behave according to the needs and beliefs of the society. Dress the way they like, work the way they tell you to, like whatever they stereotype you to, and above all, well nothing comes above their wishes. You believe you can change the world? You feel you are better in something you like but they don't? You are simply supposed to act, act the way they tell you, not an inch of inacuuracy is acceptable.       You think you are strong enough? There are examples o...

           Is it so very necessary for both the individuals in a couple to be perfect? Or is it simply togetherness and the will to accept each other the way they are that is important? Why is it so common these days to see people still unknown to the attribute of empathy? They are often confused between what they call empathy and what its actual meaning is. What they call as empathy is actually what we know as sympathy. Being sympathetic in a relationship turns things into a master and slave situation. You feel pity over your partner, maybe that's why you would not choose to hurt them, but that doesn't mean you would feel that same way they are feeling.       Men and even women too have been seen to have a lack of empathy but they don't even realize this. Your partner tells you about some problem they are facing, all you start doing is either console them, tell them you feel sorry for them, but wait, you felt the same when y...