Are women equivalent to "distractions" these days??..

     

     You see a lot of people theses days advising you on how to control your lust. How to gain control over your senses is what their prime implication is upon. Just because there are people who have been known to overcome their lust and become great spiritual leaders are mostly males, doesn't mean that the opposite gender might be the most probable cause. 

     I don't say there aren't females who are lusty, but I do say it is not always a female who is the only cause of a male leading to his doom. The more you see videos, articles or even read books, most of them influencing on man being the only being the only constant and the main desciple of the universe and all other factors around him including women(yes women too have been projected as a factor in most cases) being a cause of his strength, distraction, success and failure.

     I have come across a number of such people who influence others on the particular topic, specifying women(and their sensuality) as the cause of one's succes and failure. A very popular advise being given is one who has gained control over himself in keeping himself away from the female gender is the one who can gain his spiritual goals in life. Thereby letting us know, women probably are the ones who aren't made for having spirituality. It is women who can be the cause of destruction of a man, and that man should keep himself and the women around him under control. Does that mean the "Males" are therefore the only protagonists in the play?

     Who are these people who set these rules? And then there would be a whole lot of people standing against us calling us "the so called feminists." If this isn't the case what mentioned above, tell me why is there a picture of a sensual woman in the thumbnail of videos that claim to help you get over with your lust and distractions? Let me tell you another interesting fact, that these examples also imply upon the males being the ones having a more lusty mind as compared to women. I do not intend to accuse or insult the masculine gender, my point is to simply let people know that women aren't the cause of one's failure. Lust comes from within and let me tell you, nearly all of the porn videos features the woman completely (I hope you know what I mean by that) but it is not the case with male actor. You normally don't see their faces in quite a big number of such videos. That surely indicates one thing about the male sex being more lusty as compared to the women thereby making these industries run. The agitation towards having sex, simply with a sight of a woman's body without clothes shows the weakness in the male mind. 

     Thus, we can come to a conclusion of women not making a man weak, rather they let the world and the men themselves know, that they are mentally weak, and have no control over their own senses if they surrender to their lust.

     We are included as a bonus, in such articles with a famous line, "women too" can be able to control their senses performing these practices daily ......

So then why was it not on the thumbnail, on the title, or any of your advertisements? The bitter truth is that these people have actually made a joke out of all these serious stuffs. You search for a crime series you are sure to find a sex scene, direct or indirectly, you search for self development videos on these topics, you are sure to get clickbait thumbnails mostly showcasing either women, or male being seduced by a woman. 

     Don't you think there is a problem that actually exists? Don't you think these sorts of generalisations and notions being created should be stopped from being spread to masses? If yes then please be a part of this movement against such wrong messages being projected around in the public and let any of these false implications on a particular gender be prevented from being allowed to influence even a single being. See those around you, see the ones younger to you, are they on the right track with these subjects? Give them the right direction immediately before it's too late to get rid of the sown seed. Let the ones who are not under the educated category of the society know that things, thoughts and situations have changed. Let them know they need to change too, if they are having the wrong mindset. Not to be forgotten, men and women are equally responsible for their actions and the control over their senses, to be specific, their own senses, if they have a determination to keep a hold on their minds and be focused, no one can ever be the cause of their failure, and if they take the credit for their success, they must be taking the responsibility of their failures too. Now, let's end. Keep respecting each other, keep spreading love.