My Dearest Chronicles

                What should be the first step taken as a response to something unpleasant told by someone, or an unruly behavior? Should I ignore them? Or be it like, we must leave it on to karma?   Should I be self controlled enough to bear up with this and not react, or do you think the better way would to make the person realise their mistake?       We can't control the latter's response but all we can do is have control over ourselves. What if they do not feel the need to be sympathetic towards them? What if they don't bother at all if I start avoiding them from then onwards? My personal opinion gets confused as to when to give an answer and when to avoid people with bad behavior. It seems like crazy leaving people who wrong you just giving an excuse that it's better not to. So what would the result be then? If they are our younger ones, those who belong to the family, should we simply ignore the...

           It becomes a big responsibility for us when it comes to nurturing young brains. We know everything that we do is taken as an inspiration and even a single wrong step may leave a negative impact or sometimes a scar. These things are not so simple as they seem to be. A person's childhood shapes his/her personality.       Not just their parents or guardians but children keep a note of everything and everyone around them. And surprisingly it's a greater problem when we also come to know that one negative action influences a child more easily than the multiple positive actions.       A big difference between the behavior of children these days and that of those in the 90s and pre 90s is very much noticeable through their stubbornness. It's very easy to put all the blame on their minds and simply not take any responsibility for such a situation. You see children around just not ready to understand. Ha...

             You cannot use your brain to do multiple things at once. You cannot concentrate if you do not focus on one work at a time. And if by any chance you do so and perform satisfactorily, well then congratulate yourself for being a multi tasking individual.      It's so great to be able to do everything but then, only such individuals know how it feels to be actually someone of that kind. You know a little bit of everything, but nothing as a whole can define you. It's hard, truse it's really hard when such individuals are to make choices. A normal individual would simply go towards the path which leads them towards an easy or probably a more interesting way they would like their lives to be. But what about such people who have an equal amount of love, interest, time and effort for multiple ways? I don't think it's a crime to have multiple choices, but in real, it is actually a carrier suicide as a whole of we look deep...

           Now, when I see my friends, another creepy thought comes into my mind that shakes me down to my spine. I know the virtues of not being jealous. I know it's our insecurities that make us unhappy. But when we come to a practical aspect of life, we come across hurdles created by our own mind. And the same happens with me. I feel like lagging behind. What good things I did in the past doesn't amaze me at all since I'm not able to replicate it in my present.       It feels frustrating and disheartening. I feel like I am a worthless creature. Not because I don't know what my abilities are, but only because I can't conquer them. Every step brings with it a hurdle which is twice it's worth. It doesn't mean that my goals aren't my priority, it does not even imply I am scared of these obstacles. It simply means each every step requires me to invest double or treble the energy and time that I actually need to have invested in...

      Don't you feel sometimes people around you seem too annoying but those reasons did not bother you so much in some other point of time with the same people causing them? Do you really think every issue that comes up needs a big fight or argument to be resolved? Or probably you are the one who sometimes feel like surrounded by a bunch of idiots having no common sense at all. You see you have been under a very common situation and that doesn't even seem like a problem. Neither did any of you guys ever realised nor did I. I admit, I had been in to same situation when I felt and reacted in an overwhelming way. My views suddenly changed when a certain activity came in between as an interval. Slowly and gradually I felt like agreeing to something that my own subconscious mind popped inside my head. I agreed to the fact that I overreacted previously over the situation which was possibly a mistake but did not deserve a big punishment rather could be handled patiently or simp...